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Burung & Kakek

April 22, 2007

Alkisah, seorang kakek di Baghdad pergi ke berbagai negeri mencari kebahagiaan. Di sebuah oase, dia melihat seekor burung pipit yang sangat indah. Dia berhasil menangkapnya. Burung ini ternyata bisa bicara.

“Kakek, tolong lepaskan saya, nanti permintaan kakek akan saya penuhi,” kata si burung.

“Baik, kalau dapat menjawab pertanyaan saya, kamu saya lepaskan,” kata si kakek.

“Di mana, kapan, dan bagaimana memperoleh kebahagiaan?”

“Pertama”, jawab si burung, “Jangan percaya siapa pun kecuali Tuhan.
Kedua, jangan berharap sesuatu yang kamu tak akan sanggup mendapatkannya.
Ketiga, jangan sesali masa lalumu”.

Merasa puas, si kakek melepaskan burung itu. Tapi, begitu dilepas, si burung meledek kakek tua itu.

“Dasar kakek bodoh,” kata hewan itu. “Sebetulnya, kalau kakek tidak melepaskan saya, saya akan memberikan telur emas.”

Si kakek sangat menyesal dan mengejar burung itu. Hewan ini lalu hinggap di ranting pohon cemara. Kakek yang penasaran ini lantas berusaha meraihnya dan … dia terjatuh lalu pingsan.

Ketika kakek ini siuman, burung tersebut mendekatinya.

“Dasar manusia, baru beberapa menit saya beri petunjuk meraih kebahagiaan, kamu sudah lupa lagi. Ingat Kek, apa yang saya katakan tadi. Kakek jangan percaya pada siapa pun kecuali Tuhan! Saya ini burung, mengapa Kakek percaya saya?”

“Kedua, tadi saya katakan jangan berharap pada sesuatu yang kamu tidak dapat meraihnya. Lihat akibatnya Kakek jatuh dan pingsan.”

“Ketiga,” lanjut si burung, “Jangan sesali masa lalu. Mengapa Kakek menyesal? Bukankah apa yang kakek kerjakan, yakni melepaskan saya, sudah terjadi?”

Sambil terbang mengangkasa, burung ini mengaku malaikat utusan Tuhan untuk memberikan pelajaran kepada umat manusia.

Semoga, kita bukanlah kakek bodoh yang menyesali masa lalu kita.

Happiness is a Voyage

February 11, 2007

We convince ourselves that life will be better once we are married, have baby, then another.

Then we get frustated because our children are not old enough, and that all will be well when they are older.

Then we are frustated because they reach adolescence and we must deal with them. Surely, we’ll be happier when they grow out of the teen years.

We tell ourselves our life will be better when our spouse gets his/her act together, when we have a nicer car, when we can take a vacation, when we finally retire.

The truth is that there is no better time to be happy than right now.
If not, then when ?

Your life will always be full of challenges.
It is better to admit as much and to decide to be happy in spite of it all.

For the longest time, it seemed that life was about to start.
Real life.

But there was always some obstacle along the way, an ordeal to get through, some work to be finished, some time to be given, a bill to be paid.
Then life would start.

I finally came to understand that those obstacles were life.

That point of view helped me see that there isn’t any road to happiness.
Happiness IS the road.

So, enjoy every moment.

Stop waiting for school to end, for a return to school,
to lose ten pounds, to gain ten pounds,
for work to begin, to get married,
for Friday evening, for Sunday morning,
waiting for a new car, for your mortgage to be paid off,
for spring, for summer, for fall, for winter,
for the first or the fifteenth of the month,
for your song to be played on the radio,
to die, to be reborn
… before deciding to be happy.

Happiness is a voyage, not a destination.

There is no better time to be happy than … NOW !

Life and enjoy the moment.


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